Meet Paula: The Woman Behind Enhance Me & Paula’s Pearls…

Hey there, honey. I’m Paula Williams—founder of Enhance Me, your go-to sexual wellness coach, and the creator of Paula’s Pearls. But beyond the titles and toys, I’m a woman who has lived, lost, loved again, and found herself—over and over.

I’m a born-and-raised New Orleans girl, where charm, confidence, and soul come naturally. But for much of my early life, I was focused on doing what so many women do—showing up for everybody else. I’ve been a mother, wife (twice!), entrepreneur, caretaker, and the backbone of my family. And like many women, I didn’t even realize how much of me I had buried under all those roles.

It was in adulthood, while raising my daughters, that I began exploring church more deeply. I was trying to be a “good” woman, holding it all together. But even as I leaned into religion, I never lost touch with the sensual, the sacred, and the real. Still, I’ll admit—I had a front-row seat to the shame game. And sometimes, I even played myself.

My first marriage lasted 11 years. Toward the end of it, in 2001, I started selling pleasure products. What began as a little side hustle—a fun way to make women laugh and learn—quickly became a calling. I was offering more than toys. I was creating a space where women could talk, feel, and remember that their pleasure matters and discover the tools to make it count.

Fast forward through the divorce, deceit, and depression—and then the beautiful, complicated season of becoming an empty nester. That silence? It was powerful. It taught me to listen to my body, to stop waiting for someone else to make me feel good, and to remember what lit me up.

That’s where Enhance Me was born: from a desire to help other women reclaim the pieces of themselves they’ve tucked away and awaken the Goddess within.

And Paula’s Pearls? They came from that same sacred space—tools to bring women back into their bodies, back into their power, and enhance their pleasure.

These days, I’m married again—to my childhood sweetheart. Life has a funny way of bringing us full circle. But this version of me? She’s rooted. She’s radiant. And she’s real.

When I walk into a room now, I bring confidence and compassion. I create safe, sexy spaces where women can laugh, cry, play, and feel. My parties are more than parties, they’re passages. Intimate and electric, my consulting is heart-centered, and my mission is simple: Help women nurture their own desires so they can glow from the inside out.

Because when a woman learns to love herself holistically—mind, body, and soul—she doesn't just enhance her pleasure. She enhances her life.

So, goddess, if you’ve ever felt disconnected, dried up, or just plain tired of putting yourself last… I want you to know: your pleasure isn’t extra. It’s essential. And it’s never too late to come back home to yourself.

With love, power, and endless pleasure,
– Paula